“Furthermore, it will be very important in your life to discern different intentions. There will those that dismiss and devalue you and who you are. Know this is not about you. There will also be those that engage and invest in you. Recognize these important people, as they will make a difference in your life. As difficult as it may seem, it is very important to make the distinction.”
When in an environment conducive to who you are, it is easier to be positive and make good choices. When in an environment that does not support who you, have you noticed you literally wilt? How you have conserved mental and physical resources, leaving parts of your life to fade out?
In communication, being clear on purpose and utilizing the power of effective questioning one can take the focus off what “we” want others to do, and place the focus on empowering and developing others. At the end of the day, which has more impact?
Coaching Conversations with COACH CORA 